Ask Alvina
Dear Alvina,
We’ve had a lot of financial problems the past few years. We have a lot of proeprty which we have been unable to rent or even sell, and business has gone from bad to worse. Our debts have piled up to the point that I dread the mailman arriving or the phone ringing. Every time I think I see a light at the end of the tunnel, it turns out to be an oncoming train!
When will this ease up?
My birthday is 11/26/52, and my husband’s is 9/24/54. We were both born in Maine.
- Money’s Tight in Northern Maine
Dear Sagittarius;
You are in a place where you will take on as the authority in your home. There seems to be much movement around you. I feel that you might get upset because your husband finds it difficult to make a decision without having to change his mind, afraid that others might suffer through his decisions. This is not that he is weak, it is that he tries to make everyone happy and may have never learned to say NO.
In 2004 and 2005 he was thinking of doing something other than what he is doing now. And now today there is a definite move called for but he won’t do it until life makes him do it. This does not mean a move from you, just a change. You have to take over and make decisions at this time, for he is fearful
You may have to wait until September 2007 to once again feel completely safe and at ease. I see that around November 8 of last year you were almost clear to sell, but things went wrong because you were supposed to wait. Now on March 23 of this year, things started to fall into place once again. Just hold tight because around the last week of June of this year clouds will clear and you will see that things will start to get better. Try not to worry, life has a way of getting you exactly where it wants you. I know it is hard but have faith.
Keyword: POSITIVE
Dear Alvina,
For the last year, I have had a run of bad luck. My husband passed away 3/25/05. My oldest son and I have had a parting of the ways. In June of 2005, my daughter’s significant other left her after 23 years. however, he returned after a 2 month absence. In January of 2006, I had to have a complete hysterectomy with the threat of cancer, which proved unfounded.
Is there any hope in sight that things will improve?
- Getting Tired
Dear Scorpio;
I know it has been a terrible time for you, I am sorry.
I think that life is trying to make you let go. You are quite tenacious, and you hold on tight so that you may not want to accept change.
You are going to see that you may be fighting a lesson that you must learn. It is a lesson about “what is important, who is important and why”. Only you can answer this.
Values and Valuables are two different things. I think you have to learn the difference.
Was the falling out with your son about “yours, mine and ours”? As for your daughter stay out of it.
You are a strong woman, maybe if you look back at the years between 1974 and 1976 you can find the energy, knowing that you survived those years and went on as you will go on again.
Keyword: ACCEPT
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